Wednesday, May 16, 2012

Over 250 Authors Gang Up on Homophobia!

Hi everyone--
Thank you so much for coming today to support our very serious cause and have some fun at the same time. This is the Hop Against Homophobia and i'm Tara Lain. I write The Beautiful Boys of Romance. My novels focus on the loves of gay and bisexual men and even an occasional lesbian sneaks in there. Like many writers of gay romance, i'm a heterosexual woman married happily to the man of my dreams for many years. I was completely free to meet, fall in love with, and marry my guy and i can't imagine why any other person should not be allowed to do the same.

When i was a very young woman, i barely knew what gay was but i discovered that two of my dearest friends were gay. One of them, my best pal from high school who took me to the senior prom when i was a sophomore, went into the military and became a male nurse. Talk about hotbeds of homophobia! I think back now and shudder at the torture his life must have been hiding who he was from everyone around him. I used to go to his military balls with him so he would have a "girlfriend". He finally met the man of his dreams but, of course, he had to hide that too. I cry now realizing how little i knew then. My friend died from cancer and i miss him so much.

The other gay man in my young life was my brother's best friend. He was like something out of one of our novels -- handsome, athletic, a man of few words. I had a terrible crush on him although he was a few years younger than i. After high school, he married. He did all the things that a man from his blue collar, Pennsylvania upbringing was expected to do. I never knew when he discovered he was gay. But years later he came to California to visit my mom and me bringing his beautiful, flamboyant, fashionista boyfriend. I wish i had really talked to him about what his life had been like. But i was too "polite" and he was, after all, a man of few words.

 Today, i'm not too polite. Today, i'm honored to get to write about gay men and women who get their happy ever after -- just like i did.

 Here's what you can win on my site:

  • A $10 gift card to Amazon
  • A copy of Volley Balls or Fire Balls (if you haven't already read them)
Here's what you have to do to win:
  • Leave a comment
  • Leave your email address
  • I'd love it if you would follow this blog
  • Like the Hop Against Homophobia Facebook Page 
Now, the next thing to do is go HERE to check out the list of hundreds of authors and publishers who are supporting this Hop. Go visit them ALL!

Below, i posted a scene from my LGBT novel, Fire Balls. This scene shows a perfect response to homophobia! Thank you again for visiting!

Fire Balls by Tara Lain -- MM Contemporary

Available at Etopia Press  Amazon ARe   B&N   and other retailers

Rodney Mansfield is tiny, flamboyant and, oh yeah, a black belt in karate. He is also one of southern California’s greatest artists. Too bad the work of art he really wants is firefighter, Hunter Fallon. But the gorgeous “straight gay” guy could never want the Runtback of Notre Dame, so when Rodney’s handsome, surfer friend, Jerry, develops an unexpected passion for the beautiful firefighter, Rodney breaks his own heart by helping Jerry land his man. And then Rod makes it worse by embarrassing Hunter when he protects him from a firehouse bully. Hunter hates gay guys like Rodney – doesn’t he? Then why can’t he get the powerful pipsqueak’s face out of his mind… and cock out of his ass? And why does he risk his job and his life to rescue Rod from a burning building? Isn’t it time for him to admit he’s not an alpha male after all and that he is the property of the artist?

Jerry was coming across the lawn pushing a man in a wheel chair, an older guy with a husky upper body. He looked tall though his legs appeared shrunken. Handsome, though. Hunter walked behind with a beautiful woman, probably in her late forties, who looked so much like Hunter she had to be his mother.
So this was the fabled father for whom Hunter lived his life. Shit.
Jerry bounced up breathlessly, pushing the chair.
“You should have gone around the lawn, Jerry darling. That must have been a bumpy ride.” Might as well beard the tiger in his den. He stuck out a hand. “Hi, I’m Roman.”
“Hey, Roman, this is Matt Fallon. Hunter’s dad.” Jerry stepped back. “I’m gonna go get us some Cokes, OK? Then I’ll show you my pictures.”
Mrs. Fallon smiled absently. “Yes, dear.”
The older man gave Rodney an appraising look, but shook hands firmly. “Matt Fallon.”
“Delighted to meet you. And you must be Mrs. Fallon.” Again he extended his hand. Yeah, he knew she should offer first, but he and Emily Post were only kissing cousins.
She took his hand but kept gazing past him. “Hello.” She shook. “Hunter, that’s you,” she whispered.
Hunter stared at the painting like he had seen a rattlesnake. “I didn’t know you were going to show it here. Dammit, Rodney. I wouldn’t have come, and I certainly wouldn’t have brought my parents.”
Well, hell. “I didn’t know you were going to be here, Hunter. And if you’re so damned ashamed of it, why the hell did you pose in the first place?”
The high cheekbones colored. “I didn’t know it would be so—”
“Beautiful,” Hunter’s mom whispered, smiling. “Roman, it’s simply gorgeous. I can’t begin to tell you how extraordinary I think it is.”
Matt Fallon gazed at the painting with an unreadable expression.
“I knew that damned picture looked familiar. Moonlighting for a little porno, Fallon? Make some movies too?” The snarky voice came from behind the Fallons.
Rod looked. Ah. The asshole from the fire station.
Hunter spun, his face flaming. “Leave it, Mick.”
“Leave what, fag? Your cock? It’s all over the place.”
Hunter’s parents had turned to stare at the big blond with the pugnacious jaw. The idiot was bad news. Rod couldn’t stand him and they hadn’t even met.
Mrs. Fallon’s eyes were wide, and Mr. Fallon appeared confused. “Excuse me, young man. I thought you were a firefighter. I saw you at the station.”
“Yeah, I’m a firefighter. But I joined up when there were just real men on the force. Not homo queers.” That fucking guy didn’t seem to respect the fact that the man was in a wheelchair or that there were women present. The pissant. OK, bloodshot eyes, but the guy wasn’t drunk enough to justify being this big a reptile.
The drunken ass stepped closer to the painting. “I always figured you had some profession you were better suited for than firefighting. And here it is. Porno model.”
Hunter’s eyes shifted from his abuser to his parents and back.  His fists clenched; he looked like he wanted to hit the guy but didn’t want to make a show in front of a crowd.
OK, my turn. Rod stepped past Mr. Fallon’s wheelchair and looked up at the drunken idiot. “This is my space and you’re not welcome in it. Go elsewhere, darling, or I’ll ask the guards to remove you.”
The man called Mick looked like he had seen something repulsive. “And what have we here? Is this your costar in the porno movies, Hunnnn-ter?”
The statement was a little too close to home, which made him madder. “Please leave!”
The big idiot stepped toward Rod, hands balled into fists. “Suck my cock!”
OK, he’d had enough. Deep breath. Mawashi geri. One upper roundhouse kick. Tobi geri. One jumping kick. The satisfying connection of foot to softening tissue. Wap! Oof.
The asshole wavered, his head cocked to the side, then went down like an axed tree. Lookie loos scattered behind him. Mrs. Fallon and her husband stared open-mouthed.
Quick and efficient. Rod took a deep breath. “Sorry, darlings. I so hate violence.”
Two security guards rushed up. The smaller man, Hank, asked, “What happened, Roman?”
“Sorry to make a scene, dear. He was more obnoxious than a body could bear.” People around nodded and murmured in agreement. “Will you get him out of here and call the police, please? I don’t know what they’ll do since he’s a firefighter and I’m a fag, but I’ll file a complaint if necessary.”

77 comments:

  1. I like the sound of these Balls to the Wall books...please count me in on the contest...Thanks

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  2. Wonderful post! Thanks for taking part in the hop :)

    kimberlyFDR@yahoo.com

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  3. My son and I had a discussion about gay marriage just the other day after the President made his remarks. I'm happy to say that he agrees with it. Hopefully one day soon, more people will, too.

    Thanks for taking part in the hop. :)

    lkbherring64@gmail.com

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  4. Please count me in!
    :) thanks

    Doublemom2001(at)googlemail(dot)com

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  5. What a sweet story, Tara, and yes, having met you, you are very polite. :)
    Thank you for taking part in the hop.
    *hugs*
    K-lee

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  6. A moving post Tara, definitely making me think about the day to day lives and issues faced by gay friends.
    Only another 240 sites to visit!
    Suze
    Littlesuze@hotmail.com

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  7. I love your "today I'm not too polite." I guess you are polite enough to invite us all over to your blog : )

    cojazzchick AT yahoo DOT com

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  8. Read Fire Balls a while back and loved it - Rodney is a fantastic character (and I have a definite weakness for books where one of the characters is an artist).
    Working my way through the hop - thank you for taking part :)
    pointycat@hotmail.co.uk

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  9. I agree with the "I'm not so polite" because neither am I....just say it!
    Thank you for all you do.
    Yvette
    yratpatrol@aol.com

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  10. Hi Tara - just popping in from the hop. What a great day to unite!

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  11. I read both Volley Balls and Fire Balls, and they were really good...

    contact at mchoule dot com

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  12. FB page liked and I follow via email (hillacurr@yahoo.com).

    I've read Volley Balls and enjoyed it, so I look forward to Fire Balls! Thanks for the great giveaway!

    BK
    buffykennedy[at]gmail[dot]com

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  13. I am having a lot of fun reading all the stories and experiences in this blog hop.

    andreagrendahl AT gmail DOT com

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  14. I don't want to be entered I just wanted to say Thank you. I'm not gay, but I know plenty who are.

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  15. I'm hopping from post to post reading everyones comments. I'm so glad there are so many who believe Homophobia will eventually be wiped out.

    pennybrandon@hotmail.com

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  16. loving all the stories.

    gisu29@gmail.com

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  17. Thanks for all you do, i am just stopping by to offer my support.I have read both books and loved them so if i win please donate the books or card to another who would need them more then me....maybe even offer to the Trevor Foundation to further this worthy cause.

    Whelan051665@hotmail.com

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  18. Great post Tara! You, too polite? Who would have known? :)

    morris.crissy@gmail.com

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  19. Glad you decided to stop being polite :) what kind of books would we be reading then! lol. Thanks for sharing and the chance to win :)

    raynman1979 at yahoo dot com

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  20. Good morning, I wanted to say how much I admire you for banding together with so many authors for such a worthy cause. Good luck in your endeavors.

    Missy Martine
    missymartine@comcast.net
    www.missymartine.com

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  21. I am currently reading Spell Cat and I love the story. Thanks for the excerpt.

    dannyfiredragon@aol.com

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  22. A great cause. I can't imagine what it must be like to hide yourself from people. And how tiring it must be, too. It's something I take for granted, I guess. Hopefully, one day people will just let others be and not judge those who are unlike them. I think the world needs more variety, not less.

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  23. What a great cause! My local PRIDE is coming up next month. As I sit here now, typing away, I'm wearing my rainbow PRIDE tank top! I also enjoy writing and reading gay romance. It's not only hawt, but necessary for every person to have their happily ever after no matter who they love. Thank for shedding light on such a worthy cause.

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  24. Love your books and hope each day brings more awareness that loving someone of the same sex doesn't need to be hidden. Everyone should be equal-no matter who they love. tb-kindle@hotmail.com

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  25. So many lives ruined over the years. Lovely post, Tara.

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  26. Thank you for participating. I am also involved.


    yinyang1062 at yahoo dot com

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  27. Great post! It's sad to hear about people like your brother's best friend, having to live a lie just to be "normal".
    Thanks for the giveaway, I follow on GFC (Jennifer Stevens) and I liked the Hop Against Homophobia Facebook Page.

    ineedtoread76 [at] gmail.com

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  28. Glad you stopped all that politeness business :) Looking forward to reading more.

    Juliebites@gmail.com

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  29. A great cause that my family have supported for many years. In fact today my daughter was wearing her pink cat 'say no and stop homophobia' T-Shirt :D

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  30. Hi Tara! Thanks for sharing your story.

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  31. This was a touching blog Tara. I am so sorry to hear of your friend's passing. As they say, The Show Must Go On, but we go on honoring those who have passed, letting the world know what fantastic friends they were. I am glad that through your writing, you are giving someone out there the hope that one of these days they'll have their Happily Ever After...

    Sandra Rush
    taina1959@yahoo.com
    http://enchantedrosegarden.blogspot.com

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  32. Thanks for sharing all of your lovely stories! ❤

    madison1729@gmail.com

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  33. Hey Tara,
    it's crazy, how many conversations we miss due to being polite. Sigh. =) FYI, I've read Volley Ball and Fire Ball and totally loved them. I'm reading Spell Cat - awesome.

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  34. Tara, thanks for the great post and sorry about your friend and I'm with you I'm more than likely to ask nowadays:-) So glad you discovered m/m I love your books:-)

    melita332002@yahoo.com

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  35. Thank you so much for sharing such a personal experience with us, Tara. It's a very sad thing about your friend. Unfortunately we can't change our past, but we can learn from it and change our future for the better. Thank you.

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  36. Great story! I'm sorry about your friend as well. I'm sure he would love your stories if he was still around.

    red_tigergirl2(at)hotmail(dot)com
    GFC: red_tigergirl2

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  37. I love the excerpt, Tara! And I'm glad your friend decided to truly be himself. :)

    ashley.vanburen[at]gmail[dot]com

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  38. Thanks for sharing part of your life with us. I'm sorry about your friend but I'm sure he would be proud of your writing.Great excerpt. I follow your blog and I liked the HAH Facebook page. Thanks for the giveaway.

    e.balinski(at)att(dot)net

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  39. Hopefully with people rallying together through things like this bloghop, it'll bring more awareness to the bigotry still prevalent in our society.

    penumbrareads(at)gmail(dot)com

    I already follow your blog through email :)
    I liked the facebook page.

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  40. Thanks, as always, for sharing - not just your personal story, but your published stories as well! Today has been such an adventure, with such a wide range of experiences, it's refreshing to see how many different ways there are to deal with the hatred that's out there.

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  41. Hi Tara, what a great blog. We all know someone who's gay, but because of homophobia, people can't be who they really are. If more people realized that someone they care about is gay, maybe they wouldn't be so quick to judge. Thanks for taking part in this blog hop!

    nona (at) nonaraines dot com

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  42. Oh, Tara, you KNOW you can always count on me!! I loved your post - it was nice to hear a little of your history.
    Now i'm going to go check out everyone else's blogs!

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  43. I would love Homophobia to be wiped out. You're a new to me author and the excerpt definitely lead to you joining my growing TBR pile. :)

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  44. I so have to read that book, hehe.

    Erica
    eripike at gmail dot com

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  45. Your books sound interesting. Thanks for sharing and for the great contest.
    Andy
    andy@amburns.com

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  46. Loved Fire Balls and can't wait to see which suggestion from yesterday that you might pick for the next Balls book. Maybe mine, The Fireman's Ball? Whichever, I'll read it.

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  47. I love your books and what you wrote.
    MFierydrgn@aol.com

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  48. wonderful post (& except).
    gamistress66 (at) aol (dot) com

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  49. I agree that this is an awesome cause. :)

    cherienoel@yahoo.com

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  50. Great post! Count me in and I can't wait to get to all of the other places! I follow all ways possible ;)

    sionedkla@gmail.com

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  51. Beautiful. Wonderful addition to the hop!
    Bella
    www.bellaleonebooks.com
    bellaleone4 at gmail dot come

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  52. Signing it to support cause. Restrictions should not be placed on love. We all breathe and bleed the same. :)

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  53. Thanks for joining the hop, and sharing your work!

    isabelli3619 (at) aol (dot) com

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  54. Thank you for being part of this hop and for sharing your post with us all.

    normanieslen@bigpond.com

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  55. Thanks so much for joining the hop!! I love that scene in Fire Balls. I wasn't sure if I would want to read it, but now I definitely do!! And I can't wait for Beach Balls to come out!!

    tiger-chick-1 (at) hotmail (dot) com

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  56. Wonderful post Tara! Glad you're a part of this.

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  57. So very sorry to hear about your friends passing. I am much more vocal now about speaking up for rights that all should have. I hate that some people have to hide who they really are to be accepted. Thanks for participating in the hop. This is a great cause that I pray one day will not be needed.

    forettarose@yahoo.com

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  58. When I was in high school, only one of my teachers made the accommodations I needed. He also was one of the only teachers who saw how much I was hurting at that time. I respect him and his husband greatly; they are an inspiration.

    This is a great idea, Tara!

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  59. We are all supporting an important thing. I’m from Czech Republic. I live in an apartment building with lesbians neighbors who met with homophobia and animosity from one of the neighbors on daily basis.

    radka.bart@gmail.com

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  60. Thank u for sharing that Tara

    My best friend brother is gay. And was so scared to come out to his family, yet they were more uspest that he thought they would understand

    Sarah S

    Sarahs7836(at)gmail(dot)com

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  61. Just wanted to stop by and say hello. Loved your post. I think it's telling that everyone has a connection of one kind or another to the gay community. So important to remember that.

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  62. Stopping by to say thanks for sharing your story with everyone. Everyone should have the right to fall in love and get their happy ever after.

    lmbrownauthor at gmail dot com

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  63. Oh my G..., I love Rod already! Please count me in. And thanks for sharing your story.

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  64. Stopping by to say hello and check out your books. Thanks for the thoughtful post!

    S.A. Reid

    steph.abbott1@gmail.com

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  65. Love seeing all the diversity among the blogs on this hop, and from those commenting! Just lending my support, too!

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  66. I love the diversity and the love being shared on these delightful blogs. The comments are awesome and so supportive...they rock!
    I too grew with gay friends, but never saw them any different than anyone else other than they were in love with who they loved. They have made my life richer and i have been ever so blessed to have them in my life....*S*
    Loved Fire Balls, and you write it the best Tara...*S*
    Thank you being a who you are. Wishing you all the best and continued success!

    Darcy
    pommawolf @hotmail.com

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  67. Thanks Tara, I'm loving this blog hop! But I will never get through them all this weekend, I keep reading all of the comments too!! What a lovely, global community we have.

    tmason442@gmail.com

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  68. what a great post and thanks for sharing.. I am learning so much on this hop!
    Christy
    allstarjumperstx(at)gmail(dot)com

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  69. Thank you for your story and for your fantastic writing!

    Madtownvoodoo at gmail dot com

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  70. Thanks for being part of this great blog hop! I follow as OceanAkers on gfc.
    OceanAkers@aol.com

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  71. Love the hop and the excerpt!


    emmasmom AT wi DOT rr DOT com

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  72. Thanks for sharing :-) What a great way to come together and show support for the gay community!

    smaccall AT comcast.net

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  73. Your books have been added to my TBR pile. rpoma72(at)yahoo(dot)com.

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  74. This is a great blog hop! Thanks for the participating.
    I follow you everywhere.

    beckerjo at verizon dot net

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  75. Thanks for the post, the hop has been great!

    peggy1984@live.com

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  76. Very nice post and excerpt.

    bn100candg(at)hotmail(dot)com

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  77. What a Wonderful Post Tara, Thank you for participating in the Hop Against Homophobia.

    I believe everyone deserves to be Openly Happy in Life, to be with the Person who Loves & Completes Them, without having to be subjected to the ignorance of some close-minded people. True Love does not see Race, Gender, Socio-Economic Status, etc….if people understood that, there would be so much more Happiness in this World….We Could Hope, Right???

    I would very much appreciate the opportunity to be considered in your very generous giveaway...but I have read "Volley Balls" or "Fire Balls", which were both sooooo SMOKIN' HAWT, I even read them twice ;) LOL WoooHooo I can't wait for Beach Balls to come out....it's not just the Boys that are gonna be wet...OMG I'm sooooo Bad!!! :) I know I couldn't make it through this Blog Hop without being Naughty somewhere. LOL How did I know it would be on your Blog Tara. ;) LOL You just bring it out in me I guess. LOL But that's a Good Thing. ;)
    If by chance, I happen to be Lucky enough to win, I would very much appreciate the opportunity to be considered in a chance at "Spell Cat" or "Sinders & Ash" since they are the only 2 Books I don't own of your yet. :) As you can see, I am a HUGE Fan!!!!!

    Also Follow your Author Blog, Beautiful Boys Blog & Newsletter via email paranormalromancefan@yahoo.com & GFC Followers on both under PaParanormalFan

    Thank You Again for participating in the Hop Against Homophobia.
    Take care Tara & Stay Naughty,
    PaParanormalFan Renee
    paranormalromancefan at yahoo dot com

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