I recently guest blogged at the new site, Guys Like Romance Too. My topic was, Are You a Romance Purist? It inspired a lot of comment so i thought i would repost it here. If you would like to see the great new site and read all the interesting comments go to this site.
Are You a Romance Purist?
I’m delighted to be part of the launch of Guys Like Romance, Too! And I have a
question for the guys and girls who do like romance. Do you only like books
that are pure LGBT? No girl cooties?
LOL. Be honest.
When I started writing novels I was told “don’t mix up
your females in your male/male books because LGBT readers don’t like it”. I
understand. I do like my beautiful guys. But in real life, gay guys know women
and even have relationships with them. Some men who identify as gay have been
married and had children. Or had girlfriends. And certainly, gay men and
straight women are great friends. I can attest to that. So, how do you feel
about books that include women? Or straight men as well as gay men?
I came to romance novel writing late in my career after many
years of writing non-fiction so I tend to just write what I like and the
stories that fill my head. I’ve been delighted that other people seem to like
them too. Sometimes these stories aren’t pure anything (yep, pun intended). I’m
interested in the fluidity of sexual identity and in people finding true
expression for themselves. And I love stories that mix things up a bit.
While
some of my books are pure LGBT, I’ve also written two M/M/F ménages both of
which include men who consider themselves gay. I’ve written M/M and M/M/M books
including characters who had always thought of themselves as straight. And my ultimate
mixup to date is my new holiday romance called Mistletowed. Mistletowed
is definitely M/M. In fact, I would even call it LGBT although it starts with
five friends, two male/female couples and their gay best friend. Then two more
guys get thrown into the mix -- men who would probably call themselves
bisexual. Add a dash of magic and a piece of mistletoe and poof, we end up with
a book that is M/M, M/F and M/M/F with BDSM. It is an ensemble piece that
defies categorization and yet I think it will be fun and satisfying for fans of
LGBT romance. That’s my hope. My intention. Let me know if I succeed.
And just for fun, here is an excerpt from Mistletowed for your New Year enjoyment.
Five friends, one piece
of mistletoe. Christian Elliott has the perfect life -- right girlfriend, right
job, right house and car. How come he’s only really happy when he’s with his
best friend, Jason? Melanie Cantrell has everything she wants. Why can’t she
stop cheating on her boyfriend with her yoga teacher? Buttercup Allender adores
her stable life with Winston. But she
can’t give up her secret desire for BDSM. Stir them all together at a holiday
party with a beautiful rock god and a submissive stockbroker and what do you
get? It could be love and it could be magic.
Decision time. He pulled over into a
waiting zone beside the road. He could chicken out and just go see Jason, vent
his anger, and go home to Melanie. He could. He should. But an idea had been
growing in his mind since Thursday after his amazing conversation with Jase. It
had been impossible for Christian not to notice that he was fascinated by what
gay men did…sexually. Were most guys interested in gay sex and just didn’t say
so? He wasn’t sure, but he didn’t think so.
Had he always been interested in how
much other men thought about gay sex? In truth, he’d spent a lot of his life
avoiding thinking about sex. Since he was a teenager, anyway. It’d never seemed
all that great. He got off on work and the thrill of a new campaign that moved
the market share of his company. He chuckled. More interested in bottom lines
than bottoms. He sighed. Sex wasn’t that satisfying for him. He noticed women
were interested in him, but he didn’t care much.
But now Christian was interested. And
not in women. He leaned back on the car seat. Shit, the alcohol was hitting him
hard now. He kept wondering how it would feel to get a blowjob from a man. He
remembered wondering about that with a cute guy in his neighborhood when he was
about fifteen. But the guy always had a girl with him, and so did Christian, so
he’d let it go. He had jerked off a couple times thinking about that guy’s
pretty lips. Then he’d discovered business and forgotten the whole thing. At
least until he met Jase. Of course, Jason would never want to go there with his
best friend, but he’d made Christian think about blowjobs again.
What would it be like? He’d tried on the
thought countless times in the last three days -- before that, if he was being
honest. Right off he noticed that the idea didn’t disgust him. Actually, being
honest again, it kind of turned him on. He couldn’t help but think that a guy
would be so much better at it than any of the women he’d known. He probably
knew the wrong women, but that wasn’t the question on the table.
What was the question on the
table? Christian felt the alcohol in his brain and tried to think around it.
Okay, Sea Shell Bar, coming up. Site of his first potential male blowjob. Or at
least the candidates for it. Was he really going to do this? He giggled and
slapped a hand over his mouth. Officially over the edge.
A couple of minutes later, he found a
miraculous parking space on a street a few blocks from Jason’s house. Instead
of walking to his friend’s, he headed toward town and the murky little bar that
hosted mostly Laguna locals, including a contingent of the town’s large gay
population. He’d been there with Jason a few times and always enjoyed it. Maybe
he would tonight.
The little bar huddled between a large
rug store and a florist. During the day you could barely see inside, it was so
dark, but tonight Christian could make out a good-sized crew of preholiday
revelers gathered at the bar and playing darts in the back. Okay, asking one
more time. Was he going to do this? Shit, he had to know. He took a deep
breath and walked in, squeezing between the people near the door to find a standing
spot at the bar.
He looked around. A lot of men were
clustered in couples and small groups. He could imagine calling them
attractive. There were also a number of male/female couples, so just being here
did not advertise his interest. But Christian knew one thing. While he didn’t
think about his looks very often, tonight they were on his side. He knew he was
pretty. Pretty enough to be noticed by someone interested in sucking cock.
“What’ll you have?”
It almost made Christian laugh. He
smiled instead. “Bourbon and water, thanks.”
The big, muscular bartender smiled back.
“Sure, beautiful.”
Thank you for visiting the blog. Wicked Leanore is here on Sunday afternoon and Monday and then Wednesday, January 4th, look for the Huge New Year Blog Hop!! Thank you for visiting the blog. : )


I don't mind if a female or a straight guy is thrown into the mix. As long as we don't lose focus on the two main characters.
ReplyDeleteHappy New Year, Tara.
Tracey D
You know that I totally go for all sexual orientations. Sexual fluidity -- it's the person, not the gender that matters!
ReplyDeleteRock on, hon!
Hi Tracey, hi Louisa-- Thank you so much for coming by. Happy New Year!!! : )
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